So... damn... happy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
May. 27th, 2002 05:46 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
yesthattom[ Note: I'm going to code my two main lovers as Ying and Yang. Yang is my primary and Ying... well, we're friends that are having sex. The names Ying and Yang don't mean that one is dark and one is light, or anything like that. They are just complementary in my life, and I came up with a mnemonic to help me remember which is which :-) ]
What a weekend!
Ying's first night spent at my place.
The first time spending social time with Yang and Ying.
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Friday Evening: Watched Refer Madness on DVD with Ying and a friend. Friend is having poly problems, which makes me sad, but I think she'll work through them.
Friday Night: When friend left, Ying and I had great sex then went to sleep. It was the first time we had sex at my place, and the first time she spent the night at my place. That made is very special.
Saturday Day: Ying and I went to see Star Wars Attack of the Clones. We both really enjoyed it. We saw it in digital format, which was amazing. While waiting for the movie to start we went shopping, and both bought sneakers. After the movie Ying went home.
Saturday Evening: Yang came over with her housemate and we had dinner at a new (to me) sushi place. Her housemate and I got one of those fancy sushi boats and ate the whole thing.
Saturday night: Housemate went home, and Yang and I spent the night together.
Sunday morning: Yang went to a festival to sell her wares. I went to a picnic/BBQ with people that I went to college with. We do this on the Sunday of memorial day every year.
Sunday afternoon: Ying came to the picnic a little late (yes, we went to college together). We haven't told our friends that we're seeing each other yet, so it was fun/romantic to stand near each other and sneak glances all day.
Sunday evening: Ying really loves sucking cock, and is really good at it (a particularly big problem for me, being... umm... endowed with much luck) and we spent what felt like an hour or so at my place with her blowing my cock. It felt so damn good. She's been practicing since highschool (amazingly enough, on someone that I met a couple years ago in an unrelated situation). We have really excellent sexual chemistry. In other words: we both think the other is a great fuck :-).
The doorbell rang, it was Yang on her way back from the festival. Ying and I put some clothes on and answered the door. Everyone was feeling hungry so we went out to a diner for dinner.
I'd had conversations with both Ying and Yang preparing them for this. Yang has a lot of poly experience, but is still nervous about my relationship with Ying changing things. Ying is new to poly. I find myself in the role of bringing up issues so that they are discussed rather than building up. It's great to feel like I'm mentoring Ying through being new to poly, and it's really exciting to bring up an uncomfortable subject, discuss it, and it isn't uncomfortable any more. I see this look in her eyes towards the end like, "Wow, this actually works!". Yang is much more experienced with poly but is new to this configuration of lovers (she's usually the new person, not a primary) and there again I love the way that talking about uncomfortable things resolves them.
So anyway, we end up at a restaurant together. Conversation was polite and fun. Mostly people talking about their weekend so far. I went to the bathroom and when I came back I found them talking. They had hit it off. Thank you, Goddess!!
After dinner Yang went home and Ying and I went back to my place to finish that blowjob, and fuck. We fucked well into the night. She went home and I slept alone.
Monday, Memorial Day. 3 big chores: Pay the stack of bills that had accumulated (yeah Quicken Bill Pay), laundry, and I finally started working on the slides for the full-day tutorial that I'm going to be doing in Australia.
Speaking of Australia, I've invited Ying to join me. It would be nice to have a buddy to vacation with, and she certainly has the vacation time.
First draft of the tutorial: 5 slides. This is a 6-hour tutorial, so I've still got a lot of work to do. I'm going to be writing slides every spare moment for the next few weeks, which means less journal entries. However, doing those first 5 slides lets me see that the tutorial will actually make sense, teach something useful, and be something that I can repeat all over.
I'm extremely happy.
What a weekend!
Ying's first night spent at my place.
The first time spending social time with Yang and Ying.
-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Friday Evening: Watched Refer Madness on DVD with Ying and a friend. Friend is having poly problems, which makes me sad, but I think she'll work through them.
Friday Night: When friend left, Ying and I had great sex then went to sleep. It was the first time we had sex at my place, and the first time she spent the night at my place. That made is very special.
Saturday Day: Ying and I went to see Star Wars Attack of the Clones. We both really enjoyed it. We saw it in digital format, which was amazing. While waiting for the movie to start we went shopping, and both bought sneakers. After the movie Ying went home.
Saturday Evening: Yang came over with her housemate and we had dinner at a new (to me) sushi place. Her housemate and I got one of those fancy sushi boats and ate the whole thing.
Saturday night: Housemate went home, and Yang and I spent the night together.
Sunday morning: Yang went to a festival to sell her wares. I went to a picnic/BBQ with people that I went to college with. We do this on the Sunday of memorial day every year.
Sunday afternoon: Ying came to the picnic a little late (yes, we went to college together). We haven't told our friends that we're seeing each other yet, so it was fun/romantic to stand near each other and sneak glances all day.
Sunday evening: Ying really loves sucking cock, and is really good at it (a particularly big problem for me, being... umm... endowed with much luck) and we spent what felt like an hour or so at my place with her blowing my cock. It felt so damn good. She's been practicing since highschool (amazingly enough, on someone that I met a couple years ago in an unrelated situation). We have really excellent sexual chemistry. In other words: we both think the other is a great fuck :-).
The doorbell rang, it was Yang on her way back from the festival. Ying and I put some clothes on and answered the door. Everyone was feeling hungry so we went out to a diner for dinner.
I'd had conversations with both Ying and Yang preparing them for this. Yang has a lot of poly experience, but is still nervous about my relationship with Ying changing things. Ying is new to poly. I find myself in the role of bringing up issues so that they are discussed rather than building up. It's great to feel like I'm mentoring Ying through being new to poly, and it's really exciting to bring up an uncomfortable subject, discuss it, and it isn't uncomfortable any more. I see this look in her eyes towards the end like, "Wow, this actually works!". Yang is much more experienced with poly but is new to this configuration of lovers (she's usually the new person, not a primary) and there again I love the way that talking about uncomfortable things resolves them.
So anyway, we end up at a restaurant together. Conversation was polite and fun. Mostly people talking about their weekend so far. I went to the bathroom and when I came back I found them talking. They had hit it off. Thank you, Goddess!!
After dinner Yang went home and Ying and I went back to my place to finish that blowjob, and fuck. We fucked well into the night. She went home and I slept alone.
Monday, Memorial Day. 3 big chores: Pay the stack of bills that had accumulated (yeah Quicken Bill Pay), laundry, and I finally started working on the slides for the full-day tutorial that I'm going to be doing in Australia.
Speaking of Australia, I've invited Ying to join me. It would be nice to have a buddy to vacation with, and she certainly has the vacation time.
First draft of the tutorial: 5 slides. This is a 6-hour tutorial, so I've still got a lot of work to do. I'm going to be writing slides every spare moment for the next few weeks, which means less journal entries. However, doing those first 5 slides lets me see that the tutorial will actually make sense, teach something useful, and be something that I can repeat all over.
I'm extremely happy.
